Pressure Reveals Preparation: Why Timing Matters in Illinois Divorce

By: Leo Bezanis – Partner, Beermann LLP

Pressure has a way of clarifying things.

In sports, business, and divorce, it doesn’t create skill—it exposes whether preparation was already there. This past weekend’s Bears–Packers matchup was a reminder of that truth. Under real pressure, preparation shows. Panic doesn’t.

I see the same dynamic play out in divorce cases across Illinois.

The Cost of Waiting Too Long

Many people contact a divorce lawyer only after something goes wrong:

• A surprise filing

• A locked account

• A court deadline they didn’t see coming

By that point, they aren’t making strategic decisions—they’re reacting. And reaction limits options.

Illinois Is Not a “Figure It Out Later” State

Illinois divorce law rewards planning:

• Timing of filing affects leverage

• Early financial strategy shapes settlement outcomes

• Preparation before court involvement often prevents unnecessary litigation

Once pressure hits—court dates, emergency motions, temporary orders—your flexibility narrows.

Panic vs. Preparation

Panic asks: “How do I fix this right now?”
Preparation asks: “How do I protect myself long term?”

The second question almost always leads to better outcomes—financially, legally, and emotionally.

The Takeaway

Pressure doesn’t ruin cases.
Lack of preparation does.

If you’re even thinking about divorce, the best time to get informed is before something forces the issue. Strategy is always stronger when it’s proactive—not rushed.

Clear answers. No noise. Just the law — made simple.