Win the Game Before the Game: Lessons from Chicago’s Big Week

Win the Game Before the Game: Lessons from Chicago’s Big Week

By Leo Bezanis – Partner, Beermann LLP

There’s something about a Chicago win that hits differently — the grit, the emotion, the comeback energy. This week, fans had plenty to celebrate: an unforgettable Bears performance that came down to the wire. Moments like these remind us of a truth that goes far beyond sports: you don’t win without a game plan.

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Preparation Is Everything

In football, you can’t control the refs, the weather, or the clock — but you can control your readiness. The same applies to life’s toughest transitions, including divorce. Too many people wait until the fourth quarter to build their plan, when emotions are high and pressure is on.

Whether it’s protecting assets, preparing for mediation, or navigating parenting time, the key is to start early. The teams that execute well on Sunday didn’t build their strategy in the final minutes — and neither should you.

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Momentum Matters

Every divorce or custody negotiation has turning points — moments when momentum can shift. A single decision, like organizing your financial records or setting clear goals, can change the outcome.

When you know the rules, anticipate the plays, and trust your preparation, you’re not reacting — you’re leading.

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Control What You Can Control

You can’t predict everything, but you can prepare for anything.

• Learn your rights before conflict starts.

• Communicate strategically, not emotionally.

• Build the right team around you — people who keep you focused and informed.

That’s how you win quietly, long before the clock runs out.

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Final Thought

Chicago’s big week reminded us that victories aren’t accidents — they’re the result of strategy, patience, and teamwork.

Whether your “game” is a divorce, a custody matter, or a financial transition, plan your moves before the whistle blows.

Because in law — and in life — the best victories are the ones you’ve already prepared to win.

Clear answers. No noise. Just the law — made simple.