Prenup Myths That Keep Couples From Protecting Themselves

Prenup Myths That Keep Couples From Protecting Themselves

By: Leo Bezanis – Partner, Beermann LLP

Despite how common prenups have become, misinformation still surrounds them. The truth is, a prenuptial agreement isn’t about expecting divorce — it’s about entering marriage with clarity and fairness. Let’s debunk a few of the biggest myths I hear in my practice.

Myth #1: Prenups Mean You Don’t Trust Each Other

A prenup is built on the opposite of mistrust — it’s built on communication. It forces couples to have important financial conversations before marriage: income, debt, spending habits, expectations.

Open communication now prevents conflict later.

Myth #2: Prenups Are Only for the Wealthy

You don’t need millions to benefit from a prenup. If you have income, property, or even student loans, a prenup can protect both partners. For example:

• It can safeguard a family business.

• Clarify ownership of a home.

• Keep one partner from being responsible for the other’s debt.

Myth #3: Courts Don’t Enforce Them

Illinois courts routinely enforce properly drafted prenuptial agreements. The key is transparency and fairness: both parties need to fully disclose finances and should exercise their opportunity to get independent legal advice.

Myth #4: Talking About a Prenup Is Unromantic

Actually, it’s one of the most adult conversations you can have before marriage. It’s not planning for divorce — it’s planning for stability, responsibility, and mutual respect.

Final Thought

A prenup is like financial seatbelt — you hope you’ll never need it, but you’ll be glad it’s there if you do.

Protect your partnership, your future, and your peace of mind.

Clear answers. No noise. Just the law — made simple.