Back-to-School and Divorce: What Parents Need to Know

Back-to-School and Divorce: What Parents Need to Know

By Leo Bezanis – Partner, Beermann LLP

The back-to-school season brings excitement and fresh routines. But for divorced or divorcing parents, it also brings unique challenges. From finances to decision-making, this time of year often highlights conflicts that need clear resolution.

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1. Who Pays for Supplies and Activities?

While basic child support covers day-to-day expenses, extracurricular activities, school trips, and sports often fall into the category of “additional expenses.” Parents need to agree—or have a court order—on how these costs are shared.

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2. Scheduling Challenges

Pickups, drop-offs, after-school care, and sports practices can clash with parenting schedules. A clear parenting plan should outline responsibilities so children don’t end up caught in the middle.

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3. Educational Decision-Making

In Illinois, “custody” is now called parental responsibility. This includes who gets the right to decide on schooling, healthcare, extracurriculars, and religion. Even if parenting time is split, decision-making may not be. Without agreement, disputes can end up in court.

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4. Communication Is Critical

Whether it’s through co-parenting apps or agreed systems, consistent communication helps minimize conflict. Courts look favorably on parents who cooperate in the child’s best interests.

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Final Thoughts

Back-to-school is stressful enough without added conflict. By clarifying responsibilities—whether through agreements or legal orders—parents can keep the focus where it belongs: on their children.

If you’re navigating back-to-school challenges while going through a divorce, experienced guidance can make all the difference.

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